Alternatives to Court in Stafford, Newcastle-under-Lyme, Stoke on Trent & Alsager

We believe that is important to avoid Court where possible for our clients as to do so often save costs and stress to clients.  However, this is not always possible. 

We encourage clients to consider alternatives to Court in all family situations.  Such alternatives include:- 


This is generally a cheaper and faster process than the Courts can offer and a way of helping parties reach an agreement which takes account of all their needs, concerns and interests. The mediation process is voluntary and confidential, however, the Courts do expect parties to have considered mediation before they will allow a Court application to proceed. 

Family mediation is not counselling or therapy. It is a mechanism to encourage parties to take control of the outcome of their separation and agree matters rather than have a Court dictate what is to happen.   It is not legally binding and any agreement reached must be turned into a legally binding document by Solicitors.   It is Without Prejudice meaning that any discussions had cannot be relayed to the Court in the event a subsequent Court application is made.

If both parties want to mediate and it is suitable for them to do so, they will each attend an appointment with a mediator who will help them compromise and reach an agreement which suits everybody. The mediator can guide the parties with their knowledge of the law but they cannot provide legal advice. Parties must have their own Solicitors who do not take part in the mediation itself, but provide background advice to them about what is in their best interests. 

If an agreement is reached it is recorded in a document which the parties must then take to their lawyers who can then look to make the agreement legally binding.  

Legal Aid is available for mediation for those who are eligible.   

More information about mediation can be found at

Solicitor negotiations 

We will always try to agree matters with the other party or their Solicitors before we issue Court proceedings. This can be done through Solicitors letter and phone calls and even face to face meetings with all parties where appropriate. 


This is a less common option but is available to family clients.  The process is similar to Court and the Arbitrators role is similar to a Judge. However, the process is managed more informally and with more consideration of the parties’ needs and availability and is more private than normal Court proceedings.  

The arbitrator is usually an expert in family law but not a Judge and can be chosen by the parties.  The decision made by the Arbitrator is binding and usually enforceable through the Courts provided the process is properly followed. 

Collaborative Law

Please see our Collaborative Law Section for more information on this process.

If you would like to discuss this further please do not hesitate to speak to one of our friendly team members on 01785 252377 for Stafford appointments, 01782 987551 for Newcastle-under-Lyme or 01270 446260 for Alsager appointments.